Do you know what you want? That’s the first basic question you should ask yourself before picking up your mobile phone and dialing one of the local chat room numbers. If you know what you want, there’s a bigger chance that you will get it. Once you know and you start speaking to new people there are a few different approaches that will help you obtain what you desire.

The first thing you can do is feel out the people you’re having conversations with. If you feel like the connection is strong, you can try the direct approach. Many of the people who are a part of the hot phone sex platform are open to experiencing new things and so let that put your mind at ease to express whatever it is. If for some reason, your phone friend is not interested in experiencing what you express, you always have the option to end the call and try with someone new by redialing the chatline number.

The second thing you can do is get your new phone pal to open up by asking open-ended questions. Make sure you use your active listening skills as this will usually make people feel at ease with you. It’s amazing what listening can do. Trust me, you can even listen to sexy women get off.

If you’re confused as to what is phone sex, allow me to clarify. Phone sex is the act of mutual masturbation over the telephone with at least 2 people. It calls for creativity and verbal expression and demands a different way of being intimate. You can do all kinds of crazy things and it’s 100 percent safe. So even if you’re not sure what you want, you can use phone sex as a means to explore it all.